How To Know If Your Girlfriend Wants To Have Sex With You by Dr. Kat


Hi I’m Dr. Kat Van Kirk, guest contributor for, and this is my segment – Ask Dr. Kat!

A question from our fan today is…How do you know if your girlfriend wants to have sex with you?

Check out my tips below and learn how to know if your girlfriend wants sex.

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Tip 1 Ask her! Well, this is the really obvious thing to do.

Tip 2 Look for Cues. Oftentimes, we don’t want to do that to break the mood. So, we really want to look for cues that she’s giving, like behavioural cues. Cues like if she gets flirty with you or she’s cuddling up, starting to give you a massage or more physical affection. The longer you are with somebody the more you’re going to learn their cues.

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Tip 3 Initiate Kissing or Make Out Stuff. You can tell from most people, your girlfriend in particular, if it seems like she’s comfortable with the flow, and the moment and she’s kind of escalating the play, then it’s a good indication that you can move forward.

Tip 4 No Means NO. If you think at all at any time that she’s uncomfortable, or you’re not comfortable doing it, you need to stop the action. If you’re in a thought that “no means yes”; well, that’s not how it works these days.

Hence, if you want to know if your girlfriend wants to have sex with you, get to know her, learn the cues, initiate a little bit of play, see if she wants the idea and make sure she knows that she too has the permission to initiate it with you.


See also: How to Talk to Your Partner about Sex

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